THE COLLECTIVE
KEEP YOUR OARS IN THE WATER
The Collective
Starts: Thursday, April 3rd
Time: 6:30 pm Central
Semester: 8 weeks
Cost: $99.00
The Collective is Blaine’s private online group designed to equip you with the insight and tools to stop the cultural currents of immorality that can pull us all off course. Moral drift happens when we are unattentive or simply disengage. Lasting freedom requires steady effort.
Oars in the water. Let’s do this.
WHAT THE COLLECTIVE WILL DO FOR YOU
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BROTHERHOOD
Real change happens in community; having a group of men who understand the struggle creates accountability and support.
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INSIGHT
Understanding why you struggle is the first step to breaking free; clarity leads to better decisions.
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TOOLS
Practical strategies and resources empower you to take control and stay on the path to freedom.
THE COLLECTIVE // APRIL 2025
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WEEK ONE
PORN IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM
What if we’ve been fighting the wrong battle? This session dives into the real war—the deeper needs, wounds, and desires driving the addiction.
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WEEK TWO
WHY MARRIAGE WON’T FIX YOU
Many guys think a wife will cure their lust problem. But what if marriage exposes it instead? An honest look at how unchecked sexual struggles follow you down the aisle.
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WEEK THREE
WHY GOOD MEN GET CAUGHT
What do you do when your secret sin is uncovered? Whether it’s a spouse, a boss, or a full-blown scandal, this session is about owning your mess and rebuilding.
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WEEK FOUR
AM I AN ADDICT OR UNDISCIPLINED?
Not every guy watching porn is an ‘addict.’ Some men just lack discipline, self-control, and a vision for their lives. Are you addicted, or just refusing to step up as a man?
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WEEK FIVE
WHY SHAME KEEPS YOU SCROLLING
Porn addiction isn’t just about lust—it’s about shame, secrecy, and self-hatred. This session exposes how shame is your real enemy—and how to break free.
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WEEK SIX
THE REAL GATEWAY TO PORN
You don’t have to visit a porn site to be hooked on porn. Social media, TV shows, and certain “innocent” habits can keep you in a lust cycle. Are you just fooling yourself?
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WEEK SEVEN
YOU’RE NOT A VICTIM, YOU’RE A VOLUNTEER
Harsh truth: Nobody’s forcing you to watch porn. This session dismantles the excuses, the pity parties, and the victim mentality.
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WEEK EIGHT
CAN A MAN BE FREE FOREVER?
Most guys assume porn is just a lifelong struggle to ‘manage.’ Is total freedom actually possible? This session gets real about whether God can really break the chains.
TESTIMONIALS
“Blane doesn’t play around. He’s a true coach. In your face when you need it… and your greatest fan each time you take new ground!”
-ES, Richmond, VA
“Blaine is a champion for men all over the world, who long for freedom, and desperately need a picture of hope to look at. The Twenty Percenter group of guys are a God-send in my life!”
- KB. Detroit, MI
“My wife was ready to leave me. I had failed again and again. It was do or die for me and one year later, here I am. Married. Happy. And free! Thank you Blaine!”
- OH, Dallas, TX
“I’m in my second year of complete freedom since inviting Blaine to coach me out of a lifetime porn addiction. Greatest investment I ever made!”
- DW. San Diego, CA
“I had tried everything to get porn out of my life. Snapping wrist bands. Bounced eyes. Internet filters. Blaine’s Twenty Perecenter Group changed everything for me!”
-TR, Miami, FL.
“The Twenty Percenter Group took me deep. When you discover it’s not about trying to “white-knuckle” your way to freedom, it is absolutely liberating!”
- NW, Philadelphia, PA
Take back your life now
The Collective Commitment
Honesty.
We come in each week honest and transparent about the challenges we are facing and the work we are doing.
Humility.
We come in each week with a posture of heart to learn and grow, serving and encouraging our brothers.
Work.
We do our work each week, knowing that “oars in the water” prevent us from spiritual drift.
Confidentiality.
What is said in our group, stays in our group. We are a trustworthy brotherhood of Jesus men.
FAQs
How long does The Collective last?
Each semester is 8 weeks. Most guys participate in The Collective for 3-4 semesters. Blaine presents new material each new semester.
What does The Collective experience look like?
It begins with a group check-in. We divide up into smaller groups of 4-5 guys to “check in” on a question about our freedom journey. This is followed by the entire group coming together for Blaine’s mentoring and training time, followed by feedback and discussion. The group ends with our “Oars in the Water” assignment for the week and The Lord’s Prayer. Each meeting lasts one hour.
Who else will be in my group meetings?
There will be men like you from all over the nation. Our demographic has included students, businessmen, athletes, ministers, servicemen, entertainers… you name it. Everyone comes in humble and at a “level table.” The environment is supportive and grace-filled, with sacred moments and lighter moments of laughter.
Do the men in The Collective connect between meetings?
The short answer is a hearty yes. But you don’t have to. We find it happens naturally. Our Zoom platform allows men to message each other privately and exchange numbers if they are inclined. This allows guys to have “partners” in the battle they can reach out to when they need prayer or a conversation.
How do you ensure confidentiality?
Each man who registers for our group commits to a Confidentiality Agreement in our first gathering. In seven years of leading these groups, there has never been a breach of confidentiality.
What is the cost?
Participants are asked to make a tax-deductible contribution of $99.00. After registering, you will receive an email from Blaine with all the details, including the Zoom link.
Can I do more than one semester?
Absolutely. Most of our Collective members participate for at least 3-4 semesters, to ensure “traction” in their freedom walk. The registration contribution for Alumni is just $49.00.
Can I join The Collective during a semester already going?
Yes! We realize there is no time to waste when a man needs help and brotherhood. If you join after a semester has already started, your second semester is provided at no charge.
THE COLLECTIVE
